How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 00:24
Does not procrastinate.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Ask yourself:
What is your opinion about homosexuality? Do you think that it is by nature or a choice?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
That's it for today.
Procrastinates a lot.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Why do so many guys love anime girls?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What made you feel satisfied about your life today?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why do only ugly women like me on Tinder? Is it because I'm an ugly man?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
How do flat earthers explain the Earth being stationary? Is this concept considered impossible?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Would the word literate carry the same meaning with public (common wealth) in 1900 vs today 2020?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Do not set goals—set systems.
What I need from you?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.